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		<title>By: Beth C.</title>
		<link>http://teresadamario.com/blog/2010/02/have-you-ever-read-a-book-and-then/comment-page-1/#comment-81</link>
		<dc:creator>Beth C.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 19:05:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rape is never okay.  I enjoy reading some m/m stories but those are generally where all three people are attracted to each other (shifter or not)

I think I&#039;d have a problem with the hero being the one to force the heroine to have sex with someone she didn&#039;t want to.  I&#039;ve seen it used where the &#039;bad&#039; alpha tried to force the heroine to have sex and the hero saved her but nothing where the &#039;good&#039; guys forced the heroine.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rape is never okay.  I enjoy reading some m/m stories but those are generally where all three people are attracted to each other (shifter or not)</p>
<p>I think I&#8217;d have a problem with the hero being the one to force the heroine to have sex with someone she didn&#8217;t want to.  I&#8217;ve seen it used where the &#8216;bad&#8217; alpha tried to force the heroine to have sex and the hero saved her but nothing where the &#8216;good&#8217; guys forced the heroine.</p>
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		<title>By: Viki</title>
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		<dc:creator>Viki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 18:46:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rape is NEVER something I can overlook.  If I start a book and it&#039;s going down a road I can&#039;t handle I stop reading.  As for the dog cat thing - they do actually hump (no penetration) to show dominance over others w/in the group.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rape is NEVER something I can overlook.  If I start a book and it&#8217;s going down a road I can&#8217;t handle I stop reading.  As for the dog cat thing &#8211; they do actually hump (no penetration) to show dominance over others w/in the group.</p>
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		<title>By: teresa</title>
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		<dc:creator>teresa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 17:23:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tatiana,

Thanks for the response.  I think you are correct, it&#039;s not that rape can&#039;t be written, it&#039;s more about how it&#039;s written.  What bothered me most wasn&#039;t that a rape was shown (I have a manuscript where a rape is shown), but two very specific things:  First, the rape was blamed on them being shifters, when canines/cats do not &quot;penetrate&quot; as a show of dominance.  Secondly, in both cases, the other member of the pair was present, and managed to &quot;get off&quot; on what happened in one form or another.  

In addition, as a side note, the typical emotions regarding rape were not addressed. There was none of the feeling of being violated mentioned at any point.  I wouldn&#039;t imagine a man&#039;s feelings would be any less than a woman&#039;s even if they show it differently.

I guess all in all, it seemed more like a book saying &quot;it&#039;s okay to rape, see?  My Hero/Heroine didn&#039;t have any problem with it&quot; as opposed to what most authors write, which deals with the deeper emotions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tatiana,</p>
<p>Thanks for the response.  I think you are correct, it&#8217;s not that rape can&#8217;t be written, it&#8217;s more about how it&#8217;s written.  What bothered me most wasn&#8217;t that a rape was shown (I have a manuscript where a rape is shown), but two very specific things:  First, the rape was blamed on them being shifters, when canines/cats do not &#8220;penetrate&#8221; as a show of dominance.  Secondly, in both cases, the other member of the pair was present, and managed to &#8220;get off&#8221; on what happened in one form or another.  </p>
<p>In addition, as a side note, the typical emotions regarding rape were not addressed. There was none of the feeling of being violated mentioned at any point.  I wouldn&#8217;t imagine a man&#8217;s feelings would be any less than a woman&#8217;s even if they show it differently.</p>
<p>I guess all in all, it seemed more like a book saying &#8220;it&#8217;s okay to rape, see?  My Hero/Heroine didn&#8217;t have any problem with it&#8221; as opposed to what most authors write, which deals with the deeper emotions.</p>
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		<title>By: Tatiana Caldwell</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tatiana Caldwell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 17:06:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know many people would have big problems with rape in a story, even if the characters perceive it as okay. However, I don&#039;t necessarily believe that authors should never be allowed to write it, because there&#039;s obviously different strokes for different folks.

It should be made clear upfront to the buyer/reader of the book what they are in for. Any potentially offensive or disturbing content should come with a warning, and readers should get to choose for themselves whether or not they want to read the story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know many people would have big problems with rape in a story, even if the characters perceive it as okay. However, I don&#8217;t necessarily believe that authors should never be allowed to write it, because there&#8217;s obviously different strokes for different folks.</p>
<p>It should be made clear upfront to the buyer/reader of the book what they are in for. Any potentially offensive or disturbing content should come with a warning, and readers should get to choose for themselves whether or not they want to read the story.</p>
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